
I have blogged before that i want to have a soul mate, a best friend as the one that will walk with me till my time is due. Because i feel that it is easier to have someone that is similar to you rather than having someone that is totally opposite.
I guess God wants me to appreciate the later. Met someone that is totally opposite from me. In terms of race, attitude, culture, interests, preference.. etc etc. And i find him extremely interesting. (Well, im not sure if he feels the same but definitely he is to me)
Never a time the things he does bores me. (Except i fell asleep twice when he played some movies for me to watch. True Grit is one of them. Hmmm.) I never pay any attention to typography before and he makes me realised how much history involved in it. And also, why will people have first, middle and last name.. He answered my question as well.
(In case if you are curious as well-> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middle_name)
Im learning a lot of things from him. But we are never the same. Interests wise, food preference, attitude towards things..
And i miss him. I miss the happy times we have, i miss how smart he is. I always wanted someone that can be my Encyclopedia, my Wikipedia, my Dictionary. He is all of them. But unfortunately when there is strong attractions, there is strong resentment. I always asked myself if i have crossed the line as a friend or i expects too much from him. Hence.. we often argued. And right now, we are not talking at all.. or rather, im not talking to him anymore. I have to settle my feelings first before i can be his friend again.
So, now i know.. Even someone has a total opposite character, interests, culture from you.. Love is the one and only factor that will compromise all.


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